How to Live a Life of Independence

Living a life of independence means having the freedom to make your own decisions and navigate the course of your life. True independence helps you take responsibility for your life while allowing you to integrate with your community and make a positive impact. It gives you the freedom and stability to help others and even take a leadership role in your community. But how can you achieve this? In this blog, we’ll discuss three key components of achieving independence: emotional, financial, and mental independence.

Establishing Emotional Independence

Emotional independence involves standing on your own two feet without overly relying on others for emotional support or approval. To do this, you need to practice self-care and develop the emotional maturity to acknowledge and process difficult emotions when they come up. Allow yourself time to process your emotions without letting them control your thoughts or decisions. 

It helps to take a few moments every day for yourself (even if it’s just going for a walk or reading a book) and surrounding yourself with people who challenge you and bring out your best. You’ll also want to take steps to build up your confidence by doing things that make you feel good about yourself—whether it’s practicing compassion (for yourself and for others) or setting small goals that will help you accomplish bigger goals in the future.

Establishing Financial Independence

Financial independence is arguably one of the most important aspects of achieving freedom in your life. The first step is controlling your finances by creating a budget that works for you and sticking to it as much as possible. This will help you understand where your money goes each month. It will also help you plan for any large purchases or expenses that may come. 

Once you understand where your money is going each month, you can start looking into ways to increase your income and invest to grow wealth over time. Investment opportunities include mutual funds, ETS, stocks, bonds and whole life insurance. If you’re considering whole life insurance, a financial advisor can help estimate your rates and returns with a whole life calculator.

Establishing Mental Independence

Mental independence is one of the most difficult forms of independence to achieve. It simply means thinking for yourself and not allowing others dictate what you should believe. However, our beliefs are constantly conditioned by the media and social expectations. While many societal norms are healthy for a culture, thinking through their values and why we obey them will help you avoid passive obedience. Limiting your exposure to media will also help you on this journey.  

Another goal is to become open-minded enough to consider different opinions while forming your own beliefs based on facts based on a balance of logic, facts, and even emotion and intuition. Mental independence also means having the courage to speak up when something doesn’t feel right and having the strength of character to make tough decisions and to stick by them even when faced with opposition.


Living a life of independence isn’t easy, but it allows us to take control over our lives and reach our fullest potential without relying too heavily on others’ opinions and approval. By establishing emotional, financial, and mental independence, you can create a life that reflects who you are as an individual.

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